By DEBBIE A. ANDERSON
Within each of us, whether we want to accept it or not, resides our inner child. Whatever name you give it, this energy exists within you, because it is part of you. Some call it our inner self, divine child, true self, or child within. Whatever name you acknowledge, this feeling or memory remains part of your personality and can, if suppressed become a struggle that your adult opposes or reacts to.
In western psychology, the belief is that deep within each of us reside possible troubled emotions or feelings which we have subdued or concealed since childhood that may be affecting us as an adult, in countless ways. This is the vibrational part of our soul that can sometimes harbour grief, resentment, abandonment, rage, fear, anguish and just about every other subconscious emotion that you can imagine. This perception can at times be locked within our blue print, our programming. This is where we can easily silence or bury the memories of the betrayals deep within a cavern that we seal over and try to forget as we grow older.
This is our adult, mature way of controlling this interruption, but it holds us back from our own inner vibrational core power. Just like a petulant child, who from time to time screams themselves out of the darkness within, trying to release this emotional hostility, we as the adult should try to be honest and be open to this experience. Ultimately this can only occur when we are ready to pay attention to this part of ourselves. More importantly, it is when we accept that we are willing to heal these scars that we begin our psychological or spiritual journey.
It is only then that we start to peel back the layers and address or welcome in the energy of our beautiful inner vibrational childlike self that we are consciously ready. Like a phoenix rising out of the ashes, the pent up energy that has been trapped deep within our vibrational soul starts the release letting go.
Each frequency has its own characteristics, so becoming aware of them, embracing them is crucial to invite this transformation to begin to take place within. Remember as a child, life was about play, fun, enjoyment, so validate those feelings and much as the others. This is about trust and encouragement and reminding your vibrational soul that you are loved, safe and most of all protected.
When you are ready, to listen and play with your vibrational child, invite yourself to take baby steps. Always remember to be kind to yourself and ultimately give yourself the grace to heal. Don’t set up the expectation that this will be cleared within a day, after all, it has taken you years and years to open up that Pandora’s box that has been kept buried for so long. Like addressing any form of grief, you need time! Coax out your inner child in a gentle and forgiving way. Play for a while, get to know each other and most of all honour and validate this side of you.
The connection of your spiritual self to your higher self is about trust and acceptance. Things that happened when you were a child are now being faced, and fundamentally you are now seeing them through your adult eyes. So, embrace that you are seeing, feeling and reliving these thoughts in your vibrational and complete awareness. This is your pain, your sorrow, your sadness… YOUR mourning. So allow these buried traumas to rise and fall, releasing your suffering and any criticism you have been singing to yourself over the years. Letting go, releasing and surrendering what has been trapped within you is very cathartic. It is your divine right, so when you are ready to relinquish, you don’t have to go “cold turkey.”
There are many tools available to anyone when they are ready and willing to open up this portal. So research and discover the one that suits you and your lifestyle. Remember, it is not a case of one size fits all! Everyone is different, and for that, we are truly blessed. So whether you are the “go it alone” type, a reader, the workshop junky, soothe and heal your fears in a way that works best for you.
Reintroduce yourself to the inner you and sing the lullaby your soul essence deserves to hear. After all, it is your right to set your inner child free to be.
Born in England, Debbie A. Anderson is a natural healer who has worked in the magical sphere of spirituality all of her life, where many modalities have evolved along the way. She is a Clairvoyant & Spirit Communicator who now lives in Canada, and has been doing intuitive spiritual readings for over 30 years around the world. She has self published 2 oracle decks, Vibrational Energy (for adults) and Vibrational Earth Children. She has one affirmation deck called I am Vibrational with a second one, I AM Sacred due to be launched later in 2017. Her decks are distributed worldwide. She has also developed Vibrational Energy Therapy which she teaches to others & Vibrational Sound CDs. She has written bodywork meditations which have been narrated & published by others. Find out more about her at www.Vibrational-Energy.com